Express Yourself

This is what I believe in. Everybody is sensitive to a certain extent. I don't believe in someone who can just get away and forget when they are not being treated nicely or getting hurt. They may smile, acting like they don't care. But they do. Believe me. If there is an opportunity where you can be at a disadvantage situation, they can put you in it, if you hurt them before, even unintentionally.

Yes some people do it well at concealing their anger. They smile as if nothing happens or as if he doesn't care. That's a denial of inner feelings. Unconsciously, they will pay you back certainly. They may not realize that they have done it. But hey, the unconsciousness is at work without you even knowing it. Unconsciousness is a very primitive power where it knows what's good or bad for you. This is an application of one of the Sigmund Freud's theory.

It's ok to show when you are upset. Although they may say that you are sensitive or in lay man term, "small gas", you're just an emotionally rich person. That doesn't make you sensitive. That makes you good at expressing your feelings.

They may also say that you are lack of E.Q. But come on, E.Q. is just a lame excuse for pretentious people who act like nothing has happened and stab you back whenever they got the chance. So, beware of those high E.Q. people.

So next time when you see me getting upset because of something you did or say to me, I'm not small gas. I'm just good at expressing my feelings. That's all.

Having said that, the first thing to avoid all these complicated situations are to just be nice to people. Don't hurt them. Don't just assume that they can take it with a smile.